We have all seen it in movies or maybe even real life, grumpy grandpa yells at the watchman, sweet grandma withdraws after losing her lifelong partner. These moments are often portrayed as simply quirks of ageing. But what if there’s more to the story? What if these could be signs of something deeper, something treatable? It’s about time we start addressing ageing and mental health.
Our bodies change as we get older, that’s a fact of life. But what about our minds? You might be surprised to know that mental health is just as important for seniors as it is for anyone else. In fact, taking care of your mental well-being can have a huge impact on your overall quality of life.
Why seniors are more at risk for mental health problems?
Physical health woes
Constant aches and pains can be physically and emotionally draining. The inability to participate in activities you once enjoyed can lead to feelings of frustration and a loss of self-esteem. Facing procedures, managing medication and dealing with limitations can be overwhelming. Heart issues and other health problems can trigger anxiety about the future and a sense of losing control.
Loss and grief
As we age, farewells to loved ones become more frequent. This grief can be especially heavy, filled by worries about their own mortality. Losing a spouse, who may have been a constant companion, leaves a huge void. It’s natural to wonder, “Who will be there for me?” or “What’s left?” These existential questions can be overwhelming without a strong support system.
Retirement
Retirement can be a double-edged sword. While freedom from work sounds appealing, it can also lead to a loss of routine and social interaction. For many, work provides a sense of purpose. Retirement can disrupt this, leaving a void that can be difficult to fill.
Without a clear purpose or structure to replace work, some people may struggle with feelings of boredom, a lack of direction, and a loss of identity.
This can be particularly challenging for people who haven’t planned for this emotional shift and haven’t developed other interests or hobbies to replace work.
Financial worries
Medical bills can accumulate quickly, creating a financial strain for seniors. This can be especially stressful after a lifetime of independence. Suddenly needing help with finances can be a blow to self-esteem and cause anxiety about the future. The fear of becoming a burden on loved ones can also be a significant weight to bear.
The constant worry about affording healthcare and living expenses can be a major source of stress and anxiety, leading to helplessness and hopelessness.
Stigma and confusion
Sometimes, the biggest challenge to good mental health isn’t the problem itself, but the way we see it. It’s easy to dismiss symptoms like fatigue, low mood or changes in sleep patterns as simply “part of getting old.” However, these could be signs of underlying mental health issues.
Seniors might feel ashamed or embarrassed to seek help, fearing judgement from others. This can prevent them from getting the support they need to feel better.
Breaking down the barriers
While the challenges to good mental health in seniors are real, there’s also good news. By working together, we can create a more supportive environment and encourage seniors to prioritize their mental well-being.
Open communication
Talking openly about mental health, both in general and specifically regarding seniors, is crucial. Family gatherings, community events and even media can all play a role in normalizing these conversations.
Normalizing treatment
Just like consulting a doctor for a physical problem, seeking professional help for mental health concerns is a sign of strength and self-care.
Finding a purpose
Learning a new skill, volunteering your time or creating something can give you a sense of accomplishment. Having a purpose, gives you something to look forward to and helps you stay connected to the world.
The Bottom Line
In summary, mental health is an important aspect for elderly as well. It is important to first address it, and as we move forward, let us create an environment that excels in mental health. Don’t hesitate to seek help for yourself or someone you know.
Download Saksham to get an access to various self-help resources and tools which will help you improve your mental health and overall well-being. Take step to ensure your senior years with not just good health, but also mental well-being, with a sense of purpose and a zest for life.